TEEN BOYS IN MARIN

For thousands of years a young man’s primary purpose was clear; to make the community safe and secure. Societal reverence for this inherent role was a powerful source of identity, self-esteem and direction for young men. Without the training and respect of the community for acting in this gallant, protective capacity, young men are now apathetic and confused.

Recent neurological research has shown that puberty triggers massive frontal cortex development in teen boys. This engenders dramatic mood shifts, impulsive decision-making, as well as increased learning potential. Additionally, there are intense drives to create new self-identity, individuate from parents and experience altered states.

Without healthy opportunities to express themselves, teen boys in Marin may begin dysfunctional relationships with drugs, sex, video games, or any potentially addictive activity. To become mature adults, young men need to learn how to deal with frustration, delay gratification, and acquire their own resources.

Teen boys in Marin are generally resistant to talk therapy, which is why at Teen Solutions we work from a mentoring model instead. Therapy based on traditional mentoring/initiation models teaches adolescents how to let go of their boyhood attitudes and inspires them to find their unique voice. When a therapist/mentor lets the young man voice his fears without judgment, he begins to trust himself and see that his concerns are universal.

Call for a free initial phone consultation: 415-360-5445